We're our own dragons as well as our own heroes, and we have to rescue ourselves from ourselves.
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The bottom line is that (a) people are never perfect, but love can be, (b) that is the one and only way that the mediocre and the vile can be transformed, and (c) doing that makes it that. Loving makes love. Loving makes itself. We waste time looking for the perfect lover instead of creating the perfect love. Wouldn't that be the way to make love stay?
Interpretation
What this quote means
Love is about creating a perfect connection rather than finding a perfect partner.
In this quote, Tom Robbins emphasizes that rather than seeking out an ideal partner who is perfect, we should focus on nurturing and creating love in our relationships. He suggests that love itself can transform individuals and that the act of loving is what sustains and deepens love over time, rather than the search for perfection in oneself or one’s partner.
Themes
LovePerfectionRelationshipsTransformationCreation
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about building healthy relationships.
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