We're our own dragons as well as our own heroes, and we have to rescue ourselves from ourselves.
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The unhappy person resents it when you try to cheer him up, because that means he has to stop dwelling on himself and start paying attention to the universe. Unhappiness is the ultimate form of self-indulgence. When you're unhappy, you get to pay a lot of attention to yourself. You get to take yourself oh so very seriously.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Unhappiness often arises from selfishness and a focus on oneself, hindering the ability to appreciate the world around.
In this quote, Tom Robbins suggests that unhappiness is rooted in a person's inward focus and self-indulgence. When someone is unhappy, they may resist external efforts to uplift them, as this requires them to shift their attention away from their own problems and towards the broader universe. This implies that true happiness can be found by engaging more with the world and less with self-pity.
Themes
UnhappinessSelf-IndulgenceCheerAttentionUniverse
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about the importance of shifting focus from oneself.
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