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I had a very brilliant father who was not only intellectual, but was street-smart and very curious to boot. The day I found out that he didn't know everything, I grew up. It was a shock. I just thought that the man was the end-all of everything, and he knew the answer to everything. Then I found out I'd have to find out my own answers.
Iris Apfel
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Realizing that even the most knowledgeable people don't have all the answers can lead to personal growth.

This quote reflects a transformative moment in the author's life, where the realization that her brilliant father, despite his intellect and wisdom, did not know everything, prompted her to take responsibility for her own learning and discovery. It underscores the importance of self-reliance and the journey toward independent thinking, highlighting that growth often comes from confronting the limitations of those we admire.

Themes

WisdomLearningSelf-DiscoveryGrowthCuriosity

In practice

Example use cases

This quote could be used in a graduation speech to encourage students to seek their own paths.

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