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I don’t want your candor. I want your soul in a silver thimble.
Don Delillo
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote expresses a desire for deep emotional connection over superficial honesty.

In this quote, Don DeLillo emphasizes the importance of intimacy and the need for genuine emotional engagement rather than mere straightforwardness. The metaphor of wanting someone’s 'soul in a silver thimble' suggests a longing for a treasured, delicate part of a person, reflecting a desire for something precious and rare in relationships, rather than the bare truth of their thoughts or feelings.

Themes

RelationshipsIntimacyConnectionEmotionHonesty

In practice

Example use cases

This quote could be shared at a wedding to highlight the importance of emotional depth in marriage.

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