If in my life I fail completely to heed others, solely out of a desire to be 'devout' and to perform my 'religious duties', then my relationship with God will also grow arid. It becomes merely 'proper', but loveless.
The Catholic community must offer support to those women who may find it difficult to accept a child, above all when they are isolated from their family and friends. Likewise, the community should be open to welcome back all who repent of having participated in the grave sin of abortion, and should guide them with pastoral charity to accept the grace of forgiveness, the need for penance, and the joy of entering once more into the new life of Christ.
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What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of community support for women facing challenges with motherhood and the need for forgiveness for those who have had abortions.
Pope Benedict XVI's quote highlights the role of the Catholic community in offering compassion and support to women who may struggle with the decision to accept a child, particularly when they feel alone or disconnected from loved ones. It encourages a welcoming environment for those who have experienced the pain of abortion, emphasizing the importance of pastoral care, forgiveness, and the opportunity for renewal in faith, thereby fostering a sense of belonging and the transformative power of grace.
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In a church service discussing the sanctity of life.
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