Community is a sign that love is possible in a materialistic world where people so often either ignore or fight each other. It is a sign that we don't need a lot of money to be happy--in fact, the opposite.
Jean VanierRead
In any case, community is not about perfect people. It is about people who are bonded to each other, each of whom is a mixture of good and bad, darkness and light, love and hate.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Community consists of imperfect individuals who connect through their shared experiences and emotions.
In this quote, Jean Vanier emphasizes that true community is built not on the expectation of perfection, but rather on the acceptance of each person's complexities. It acknowledges that everyone has both strengths and weaknesses, and it is this mix of qualities—light and darkness, love and hate—that fosters deeper connections among people, creating a richer, more authentic community spirit.
Themes
CommunityConnectionImperfectionRelationshipsAcceptance
In practice
Example use cases
During a community gathering, one might share this quote to highlight the importance of embracing each other's flaws.
More from Jean Vanier
All quotes →One of the marvelous things about community is that it enables us to welcome and help people in a way we couldn't as individuals. When we pool our strength and share the work and responsibility, we can welcome many people, even those in deep distress, and perhaps help them find self-confidence and inner healing.
Jean VanierRead
We all know well that we can do things for others and in the process crush them, making them feel that they are incapable of doing things by themselves. To love someone is to reveal to them their capacities for life, the light that is shining in them.
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True peace can rarely be imposed from the outside; it must be born within and between communities through meetings and dialogue and then carried outward.
Jean VanierRead
We have to remind ourselves constantly that we are not saviours. We are simply a tiny sign, among thousands of others, that love is possible, that the world is not condemned to a struggle between oppressors and oppressed, that class and racial warfare is not inevitable.
Jean VanierRead
When we begin to believe that there is greater joy in working with and for others, rather than just for ourselves, then our society will truly become a place of celebration.
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