Get correct views of life, and learn to see the world in its true light. It will enable you to live pleasantly, to do good, and, when summoned away, to leave without regret.
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I am now considered such a monster, that I hesitate to darken with my shadow, the doors of those I love, lest I should bring upon them misfortune.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The speaker feels like a burden to their loved ones, fearing their presence might bring harm.
In this quote, Robert E. Lee expresses deep concern for the well-being of those he cares about, believing that his own existence may be detrimental to them. The metaphor of being a 'monster' illustrates his self-perception of being harmful, suggesting that personal struggles or past actions could negatively impact the lives of his loved ones. It highlights a painful sense of isolation that can arise when one feels unworthy of love and connection due to perceived flaws.
Themes
MonsterLoveMisfortuneRelationshipsFear
In practice
Example use cases
In a personal development workshop discussing how to cope with feelings of inadequacy when involving loved ones.
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