The poet is one who is able to keep the fresh vision of the child alive.
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The source of sexual power is curiosity, passion. You are watching its little flame die of asphyxiation. Sex does not thrive on monotony. Without feeling, inventions, moods, no surprises in bed. Sex must be mixed with tears, laughter, words, promises, scenes, jealousy, envy, all of the spices of fear, foreign travel, new faces, novels, stories, dreams, fantasies, music, dancing, opium, wine.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote highlights the importance of variety and emotional depth in sexual relationships.
Anais Nin emphasizes that sexual power stems from curiosity and passion rather than routine or monotony. For a fulfilling sexual experience, it is essential to incorporate a range of emotions and experiences, suggesting that love and intimacy should be enriched with excitement, surprises, and a full spectrum of human feelings.
Themes
SexualityCuriosityPassionEmotionsIntimacy
In practice
Example use cases
A speaker at a relationship seminar might use this quote to illustrate the importance of maintaining excitement in long-term partnerships.
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