We start making every child ambitious, and ambition means you cannot love; ambition is anti-love. Ambition needs fight, ambition needs struggle, ambition needs you to use others as a means.
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This is the case with millions of people. They talk about love, they know all the poetries about love, but they have never loved. Or even if they thought they were in love, they were never in love. That too was a 'heady' thing, it was not of the heart. People live and go on missing life. It needs courage. It needs courage to be realistic, it needs courage to move with life wherever it leads, because the paths are uncharted, there exists no map. One has to go into the unknown.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes that many speak of love without truly experiencing it, highlighting the courageous journey of facing life's uncertainties.
Rajneesh reflects on the difference between intellectual understanding of love and its true emotional experience. He points out that many people can recite poetry about love yet have never truly felt it in their hearts. To genuinely live and embrace love, one must possess the courage to step into the unknown and accept life as it comes, rather than relying on preconceived notions or societal maps.
Themes
LoveCourageLifeUnknownRealism
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared in a discussion about the nature of love and relationships.
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