I can never drive my car over a bridge without thinking of suicide. I can never look at a lake or an ocean without thinking of suicide.
You have to lay down in the center of the action lay down and wait until it charges then you must get up face it get it before it gets you the whole process is more shy than vulnerable so lay down and wait sometimes it's ten minutes sometimes it's years sometimes it never arrives but you can't rush it push it there's no way to cheat or get a jump on it you have to lay down lay down and wait like an animal .
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What this quote means
Patience is essential in facing life's challenges; sometimes, we must wait for the right moment to act.
This quote by Charles Bukowski emphasizes the importance of patience and acceptance in confronting life's challenges. It suggests that instead of forcing actions or rushing into situations, one should be willing to lay low and wait for the right opportunities to emerge, as these moments can take time to arrive. The metaphor of 'laying down like an animal' symbolizes a natural and instinctive approach to dealing with uncertainty, acknowledging that there are limits to how much we can control the timing of events in our lives.
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Example use cases
During a motivational speech about overcoming obstacles, one might use this quote to highlight the need for patience in achieving goals.
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