You are 27 or 28 right? It is very tough to live at that age. When nothing is sure. I have sympathy with you.
A certain kind of shittiness, a certain kind of stagnation, a certain kind of darkness, goes on propagating itself by its own power in its own self-contained cycle. And once it passes a certain point, no one can stop it-even if the person himself wants to stop it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote illustrates how negative states can perpetuate themselves beyond an individual's control.
In this quote, Haruki Murakami reflects on the nature of destructive patterns and cycles that can develop within individuals. He suggests that once someone has succumbed to a certain level of negativity or stagnation, it can become self-sustaining, often leading to a point where external intervention becomes futile, even if the person recognizes the need for change. This highlights the struggle with personal demons and the challenges of breaking free from detrimental habits and mindsets.
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Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about mental health and the challenges of overcoming depression.
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