It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other's smartphone.
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What this quote means
In today's world, maintaining interesting relationships can be challenging due to distractions like smartphones.
Alain De Botton highlights the struggle of modern relationships, where the constant presence of smartphones can often overshadow personal connections. This quote emphasizes the importance of engaging in meaningful interactions to capture and retain the interest of one's partner amidst digital distractions.
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RelationshipsSmartphonesDistractionCommunicationConnection
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In a speech about modern love, you can quote De Botton to illustrate how technology impacts relationships.
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