Every island to a child is a treasure island.
P. D. JamesRead
What a child doesn't receive he can seldom later give.
Interpretation
Children's emotional and social development relies heavily on the love and support they receive.
This quote emphasizes the importance of nurturing and providing emotional support to children. It suggests that without receiving affection, care, and guidance during their formative years, individuals may struggle to offer those same qualities in their relationships as adults, highlighting the profound impact of early experiences on a person's ability to connect with others later in life.
In practice
This quote can be used in a parenting workshop to emphasize the importance of emotional support.
Every island to a child is a treasure island.
If from infancy you treat children as gods, they are liable in adulthood to act as devils.
I believe that political correctness can be a form of linguistic fascism, and it sends shivers down the spine of my generation who went to war against fascism.
Open your mind to new experiences, particularly to the study of other Βpeople. Nothing that happens to a writer β however happy, however tragic β is ever wasted.
It was one of those perfect English autumnal days which occur more frequently in memory than in life.
The weekend break had begun with the usual resentment and had continued with half-repressed ill humour. It was, of course, his fault. He had been more ready to hurt his wife's feelings and deprive his daughter than inconvenience a pub bar full of strangers. He wished there could be one memory of his dead child which wasn't tainted with guilt and regret.
Some mothers in today's world feel "cumbered" by home duties and are thus attracted by other more "romantic" challenges. Such women could make the same error of perspective that Martha made. The woman, for instance, who deserts the cradle in order to help defend civilization against the barbarians may well later meet, among the barbarians, her own neglected child.
The moment a child is born, the mother is also born.
This is part of what a family is about, not just love. It's knowing that your family will be there watching out for you. Nothing else will give you that. Not money. Not fame. Not work.
When you have children, your perspective on the parent-child relationship alters.
I thought of the one thing about home that I missed, my dad's study with its built-in, floor-to-ceiling shelves sagging with thick biographies and the black leather chair that kept me just uncomfortable enough to keep from feeling sleepy as I read.
I've learned... That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.
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