We will not have failure - only success and new learning.
Queen VictoriaRead
Men never think, at least seldom think, what a hard task it is for us women to go through this very often. God's will be done, and if He decrees that we are to have a great number of children why we must try to bring them up as useful and exemplary members of society.
Interpretation
The quote highlights the challenges women face in raising children while emphasizing the importance of nurturing them to be responsible members of society.
Queen Victoria reflects on the significant burden and responsibility placed on women to raise children, suggesting that it is often overlooked by men. She acknowledges the divine will in having large families but insists that it is the duty of mothers to guide their children toward becoming productive and moral individuals in society.
In practice
In a discussion about parenting challenges, this quote can be used to emphasize the dedication required in motherhood.
We will not have failure - only success and new learning.
The poor fatherless baby of eight months is now the utterly broken-hearted and crushed widow of forty-two! My life as a happy one is ended! the world is gone for me! If I must live on (and I will do nothing to make me worse than I am), it is henceforth for our poor fatherless children - for my unhappy country, which has lost all in losing him - and in only doing what I know and feel he would wish.
Since it has pleased Providence to place me in this station, I shall do my utmost to fulfil my duty towards my country; I am very young and perhaps in many, though not in all things, inexperienced, but I am sure that very few have more real good will and more real desire to do what is fit and right than I have.
Nothing will turn a man's home into a castle more quickly and effectively than a dachshund.
There is, however, another subject on which the Queen feels most strongly, and that is this horrible, brutalizing, un-Christian-like vivisection…It must really not be permitted. It is a disgrace to a civilized country.
Being married gives one one's position like nothing else can.
There is no greater warrior than a mother protecting her child.
A grandmother's special calling is to pray and to be a fellow worker in the battle in which her children or her grandchildren are engaged.
There's a line I have that our family was designed more for public than for private. But there are definitely some things that are only mine. I am someone who dreams at night, and you don't know what I'm dreaming.
I never had children, never even thought I would have children. Now I have 152 daughters; expecting 75 more next year. That is some type of gestation period.
My mother and father were never frightened of anything. They always felt that they should go through life happily and without fear, and they did that. And it was a great boon to my brother and myself.
I don't like the word 'businesswoman.' Perhaps 'committed mother' would be the best description.
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