We will not have failure - only success and new learning.
Queen VictoriaRead
The poor fatherless baby of eight months is now the utterly broken-hearted and crushed widow of forty-two! My life as a happy one is ended! the world is gone for me! If I must live on (and I will do nothing to make me worse than I am), it is henceforth for our poor fatherless children - for my unhappy country, which has lost all in losing him - and in only doing what I know and feel he would wish.
Interpretation
This quote reflects profound grief and loss, emphasizing the impact of losing a loved one on one's life and responsibilities.
Queen Victoria expresses deep sorrow and despair over the death of her beloved husband, reflecting on how her life has irrevocably changed. The quote highlights themes of motherhood, duty, and the suffering that accompanies loss, as she pledges to continue living for the sake of their children and her country, demonstrating resilience amidst heartbreak.
In practice
At a memorial service, this quote could be used to express the depth of loss experienced by a surviving spouse.
We will not have failure - only success and new learning.
Men never think, at least seldom think, what a hard task it is for us women to go through this very often. God's will be done, and if He decrees that we are to have a great number of children why we must try to bring them up as useful and exemplary members of society.
Since it has pleased Providence to place me in this station, I shall do my utmost to fulfil my duty towards my country; I am very young and perhaps in many, though not in all things, inexperienced, but I am sure that very few have more real good will and more real desire to do what is fit and right than I have.
Nothing will turn a man's home into a castle more quickly and effectively than a dachshund.
There is, however, another subject on which the Queen feels most strongly, and that is this horrible, brutalizing, un-Christian-like vivisection…It must really not be permitted. It is a disgrace to a civilized country.
Being married gives one one's position like nothing else can.
I do take very good care of myself, and I'm always in love. And by that I mean I have an appetite for life. I'm in love with beauty and things and people and love and being in love, and those things I think, on the inside, show on the outside.
Standing on the fringes of life... offers a unique perspective. But there comes a time to see what it looks like from the dance floor.
Life is too short for long-term grudges.
When you're scared, you're still hanging on to life. When you're ready to die, you let it go. A sort of emptying out occurs, a giving up on the world that seems oddly familiar even if you've never done it before.
It is so easy to presume that while your own world has ground to an absolute halt, so has everyone else's.
The emotionally sound person should be able to take risks, to ask himself what he really would like to do in life, and then to try to do this, even though he has to risk defeat or failure. He should be adventurous (though not necessarily foolhardy); be willing to try almost anything once, just to see how he likes it; and look forward to some breaks in his usual life routines.
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