And enough for me that when my hand touched your shoulder, you leaned on me; and when you felt me slip away, you called my name.
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It is easy to say that you can adopt the whole human race as your children, but it is not the same as living in a home with a child and shaping all you do to help him learn to be happy and whole and good. Don't live your life without ever holding a child in your arms, on your lap, in your home, and feeling a child's arms around you and hearing his voice in your ear and seeing his smile, given to you because you put it into your heart.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of personal, direct engagement with a child over abstract feelings of care for humanity.
Orson Scott Card's quote illustrates the profound impact of nurturing a child in a personal and intimate setting. It contrasts the simplicity of claiming love and responsibility for all humanity with the intricate, rewarding experience of actively participating in a child's life. Through tangible experiences, such as holding a child and witnessing their development, we cultivate genuine connections that foster happiness and goodness, thus enriching both their lives and our own.
Themes
ChildrenNurturingFamilyHappinessLove
In practice
Example use cases
In a parenting workshop, I quoted Orson Scott Card to highlight the importance of hands-on parenting.
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