If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
All of childhood's unanswered questions must finally be passed back to the town and answered there. Heroes and bogey men, values and dislikes, are first encountered and labeled in that early environment. In later years they change faces, places and maybe races, tactics, intensities and goals, but beneath those penetrable masks they wear forever the stocking-capped faces of childhood.
Interpretation
Childhood experiences shape our understanding of the world and influence who we become.
This quote by Maya Angelou reflects on the idea that the foundational experiences of childhood—our heroes, fears, and values—are deeply influential in shaping our identity. As we grow older, these early labels and perceptions may evolve and shift, but they remain embedded within us, impacting our choices and perspectives throughout life. Ultimately, it suggests that we must confront and understand these childhood influences to navigate adulthood effectively.
In practice
In a discussion about personal development during a psychology class.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
The higher culture an individual attains, the less field there is left for mockery and scorn.
We're all just songs in the end. If we are lucky.
We want to know not how we should pray if we were perfect but how we should pray being as we now are ... It is no use to ask God with factitious earnestness for A when our whole mind is in reality filled with the desire for B. We must lay before Him what is in us, not what ought to be in us.
Sleep lingers all our lifetime about our eyes, as night hovers all day in the boughs of the fir-tree.
So full of artless jealousy is guilt, It spills itself in fearing to be spilt.
It is hard to interest those who have everything in those who have nothing.
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