You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
And he wishes, in the cold quiet of his archer's heart, that he himself could feel the intensity of their reconciliations as strongly as he feels that of their battles.
Interpretation
The quote reflects the internal struggle of valuing emotional connections over conflicts.
In this quote, David Foster Wallace delves into the emotional landscape of an archer, who yearns for the profound intensity experienced during reconciliations, contrasting it with the fervor felt during battles. It underscores the complexity of human emotions and the desire for deeper connections, suggesting that while one may be accustomed to the thrill of conflict, the yearning for genuine emotional experiences is equally, if not more, significant.
In practice
This quote can be used in a discussion about emotional depth in literature.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
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