Weather is a literary specialty, and no untrained hand can turn out a good article on it
Mark TwainRead
I think a compliment ought always to precede a complaint, where one is possible, because it softens resentment and insures for the complaint a courteous and gentle reception.
Interpretation
A compliment can help make a complaint more acceptable and less harsh.
In this quote, Mark Twain suggests that when we need to give feedback, especially if it's negative, starting with a compliment can create a more positive atmosphere. This approach softens the impact of the complaint, making it more likely to be received in a constructive manner rather than as an attack, thus maintaining respectful and cordial communication.
In practice
In a business meeting when giving feedback on a team member's project.
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