Contention in our families drives the Spirit of the Lord away. It also drives many of our family members away. Contention ranges from a hostile spoken word to worldwide conflicts. The scriptures tell us that "Only by pride cometh contention".
Interpretation
Family disputes can push away spiritual presence and loved ones, stemming from pride.
This quote by Ezra Taft Benson highlights the destructive nature of contention within families, suggesting that such strife alienates both the divine spirit and individual family members. It emphasizes that the root cause of contention is often pride, which, when left unchecked, can escalate from minor disagreements to significant conflicts that affect relationships deeply.
In practice
In a family meeting discussing resolution strategies, I might say, 'As we reflect on Ezra Taft Benson's words, let's remember that contention drives the Spirit away.'
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