Everyone asks me how I stay calm on court and I think it's because I accepted who I am after overcoming low points in my life.
Coco GauffRead
What I do on court is great, but what really matters is what happens off court, the people who you affect.
Interpretation
True impact is measured by how we affect others beyond our professional achievements.
Coco Gauff emphasizes that while her performance in tennis is significant, the true measure of her life lies in her relationships and the positive influence she has on those around her. This perspective shifts the focus from personal success to the importance of community and the connections we create with others, highlighting that personal achievements should be viewed through the lens of their broader impact on society.
In practice
In a motivational speech about the importance of community service.
Everyone asks me how I stay calm on court and I think it's because I accepted who I am after overcoming low points in my life.
The amount of people - and kids especially - that come up to me saying I inspire them is honestly better than any match I could win, just to know that I inspire another kid maybe to pick up a racquet or go through something they're facing at school.
There's so many people going through so many, like, uncomfortable situations. For me to be - I mean, obviously being nervous is natural - but for me to think that winning a tennis match or losing a tennis match is the end of the world, I think just kind of shows what kind of privilege I have.
Throughout my life, I was always the youngest to do things, which added hype that I didn't want. It added this pressure that I needed to do well fast.
It's important for us to know that our worth isn't defined by how well we do in our sport.
If you are choosing silence, you're choosing the side of the oppressor.
You always think that a bolt of lightning is going to strike and your parents will magically change into the people you wish they were, or back into the people they used to be.
A woman may very well form a friendship with a man, but for this to endure, it must be assisted by a little physical antipathy.
Jews have deep respect for the Queen and the royal family. We say a prayer for them every Sabbath in synagogue. We recite a special blessing on seeing the Queen.
To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that one that must be loved is not a friend. There is not merit in loving an enemy when you forget him for a friend.
If every husband and every wife would constantly do whatever might be possible to ensure the comfort and happiness of his or her companion, there would be very little, if any, divorce. Argument would never be heard. Accusations would never be leveled. Angry explosions would not occur. Rather, love and concern would replace abuse and meanness.
To get greater than 100% return on a growth step, give up defensiveness. Defensiveness stifles performance, and destroys relationships.
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