Everyone asks me how I stay calm on court and I think it's because I accepted who I am after overcoming low points in my life.
Coco GauffRead
What I do on court is great, but what really matters is what happens off court, the people who you affect.
Interpretation
True impact is measured by how we affect others beyond our professional achievements.
Coco Gauff emphasizes that while her performance in tennis is significant, the true measure of her life lies in her relationships and the positive influence she has on those around her. This perspective shifts the focus from personal success to the importance of community and the connections we create with others, highlighting that personal achievements should be viewed through the lens of their broader impact on society.
In practice
In a motivational speech about the importance of community service.
Everyone asks me how I stay calm on court and I think it's because I accepted who I am after overcoming low points in my life.
The amount of people - and kids especially - that come up to me saying I inspire them is honestly better than any match I could win, just to know that I inspire another kid maybe to pick up a racquet or go through something they're facing at school.
There's so many people going through so many, like, uncomfortable situations. For me to be - I mean, obviously being nervous is natural - but for me to think that winning a tennis match or losing a tennis match is the end of the world, I think just kind of shows what kind of privilege I have.
Throughout my life, I was always the youngest to do things, which added hype that I didn't want. It added this pressure that I needed to do well fast.
It's important for us to know that our worth isn't defined by how well we do in our sport.
If you are choosing silence, you're choosing the side of the oppressor.
But why should you be interested in me?" Good question. I can’t explain it myself right this moment. But maybe – just maybe – if we start getting together and talking, after a while something like Francis Lai’s soundtrack music will start playing in the background, and a whole slew of concrete reasons why I’m interested in you will line up out of nowhere. With luck, it might even snow for us.
He tried to give his wife pleasure in little ways, because he had come to realize, after nearly two decades together, how often he disappointed her in the big things. It was never intentional. They simply had very different notions of what ought to take up most space in life.
Human beings are natural mimickers. The more youre conscious of the other sides posture, mannerisms, and word choices - and the more you subtly reflect those back - the more accurate youll be at taking their perspective.
Trying to learn to be a good man is like learning to play tennis against a wall. You are only a good man - a competent, capable, interesting and lovable man - when you're doing it for, or with, other people.
She knew now that marriage did not make love. Janie’s first dream was dead, so she became a woman.
I've always loved independent women, outspoken women, eccentric women, funny women, flawed women. When someone says about a woman, 'I'm sorry, that's just wrong,' I tend to think she must be doing something right.
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