Courtesies cannot be borrowed like snow shovels; you must have some of your own.
Interpretation
True kindness and courtesy come from within and cannot be faked or borrowed.
This quote emphasizes the idea that genuine acts of courtesy and kindness cannot simply be replicated or borrowed from others; instead, they must stem from an individual's own character and values. Just as one cannot borrow a snow shovel to clear their driveway without owning one, true courtesy requires an authentic commitment to treating others well, reflecting a person's own integrity and thoughtfulness.
In practice
This quote can be used in a speech about the importance of kindness in leadership.
If we could only make our hands move as actively as our tongues, what wonders we could accomplish! Almost everyone loves to hear his own voice. It is so easy, too! Yet if we could say less and do more for each other's good, not alone would every home be happier, but communities would be enriched thereby. Instead of criticism by speech, to show someone a better way to do a thing would be of much greater value.
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We have found that it is easier for men to die together on the field of battle than it is for them to live together at home in peace.
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