If we want our daughters to honor their bodies, they need to hear us honor ours, no matter what size or shape we are, no matter what scars or sags we see in that mirror.
Interpretation
We should model body positivity for our daughters to encourage them to respect their own bodies.
This quote emphasizes the importance of parents, particularly mothers, demonstrating body positivity and self-acceptance in order to teach their daughters to honor and appreciate their own bodies. By showing love and respect for their own physical selves, parents set a powerful example that can help shape their daughters' self-image, regardless of societal standards of beauty or personal insecurities.
In practice
A mother might share this quote during a discussion about self-esteem with her daughter.
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Forgivness is letting go of the hope that the past can be changed
I know you want me back. It's time to face the facts. That I'm the one that's got away. Lord knows that it would take another place, another time, another world, another life. Thank God I found the good in goodbye.
Mr. Thornton felt that in this influx no one was speaking to Margaret, and was restless under this apparent neglect. But he never went near her himself; he did not look at her. Only, he knew what she was doing — or not doing — better than anyone else in the room. Margaret was so unconscious of herself, and so much amused by watching other people, that she never thought whether she was left unnoticed or not.
'Tis strange what a man may do, and a woman yet think him an angel.
And if I had not a letter to write myself, I might sit by you and admire the evenness of your writing, as another young lady once did. But I have an aunt too, who must not be longer neglected.
People ask me what advice I have for a married couple struggling in their relationship. I always answer: pray and forgive. And to young people from violent homes, I say: pray and forgive. And again, even to the single mother with no family support: pray and forgive.
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