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Death is a vast mystery, but there are two things we can say about it: It is absolutely certain that we will die, and it is uncertain when or how we will die. The only surety we have, then, is this uncertainty about the hour of our death, which we seize on as the excuse to postpone facing death directly. We are like children who cover their eyes in a game of hide and seek and think that no one can see them.
Sogyal Rinpoche
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Death is inevitable, yet its timing remains unknown, which leads us to avoid confronting it.

In this quote, Sogyal Rinpoche highlights the dual nature of death: its certainty and its uncertainty. While we all will eventually face death, we often choose to ignore its inevitability and delay our acceptance of it, much like children in a game of hide and seek who think they are invisible when they cover their eyes. This analogy challenges us to confront the reality of death instead of using uncertainty as a means of avoidance.

Themes

DeathUncertaintyLifeAcceptancePhilosophy

In practice

Example use cases

In a memorial speech to remind attendees of the importance of embracing life.

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