The generality of virtuous women are like hidden treasures, they are safe only because nobody has sought after them.
Our desires always disappoint us; for though we meet with something that gives us satisfaction, yet it never thoroughly answers our expectation. [However disappointment can always be removed if we remember it could have turned out worse.]
Interpretation
What this quote means
Desires often lead to disappointment because they rarely fulfill our expectations completely, yet perspective can alleviate that disappointment.
This quote by Francois De La Rochefoucauld reflects on the nature of human desires and expectations. It suggests that while we may find temporary satisfaction in fulfilling our desires, they often fall short of what we truly hope for, leading to disappointment. However, the quote also emphasizes a valuable perspective: by recognizing that outcomes could have been worse, we can mitigate our feelings of disappointment and learn to appreciate what we have instead.
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Example use cases
In a motivational speech about managing personal expectations.
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