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I maintain, despite the moment's evidence against the claim, that we are born and grow up with a fondness for each other, and we have genes for that. We can be talked out of it, for the genetic message is like a distant music, and some of us are hard-of-hearing. Societies are noisy affairs, drowning out the sound of ourselves and our connection.
Lewis Thomas
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What this quote means

Humans have an innate connection to each other that societal influences can overshadow.

This quote emphasizes that while our genetic makeup may predispose us to bond with one another, external societal pressures can obscure or diminish these natural connections. Lewis Thomas suggests that our inherent fondness for each other is a subtle, almost instinctual response that can be dulled by the noise of society, making it difficult to hear the 'music' of our true selves and relationships.

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RelationshipsConnectionGeneticsSocietyHuman Nature

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Example use cases

This quote can be used in a speech about the importance of nurture in relationships.

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