Death is the sound of distant thunder at a picnic.
W. H. AudenRead
We do not change as we grow up. The difference between the child and the adult is that the former doesn't know who he is and the latter does.
Interpretation
Growing up brings self-awareness, distinguishing children who are still discovering themselves from adults who have a clearer understanding of their identity.
This quote by W. H. Auden suggests that the process of growing up is less about changing in essence and more about discovering one's true self. While children are often in a state of exploration and uncertainty regarding their identity, adults typically reach a stage where they possess a better understanding of who they are, highlighting a journey of self-realization rather than transformation.
In practice
During a motivational talk on personal development.
Death is the sound of distant thunder at a picnic.
That the speech of self-disclosure should be translatable seems to me very odd, but I am convinced that it is. The conclusion that I draw is that the only quality which all human being without exception possess is uniqueness: any characteristic, on the other hand, which one individual can be recognized as having in common with another, like red hair or the English language, implies the existence of other individual qualities which this classification excludes.
Nobody knows what the cause is, though some pretend they do; it like some hidden assassin waiting to strike at you. Childless women get it, and men when they retire; it as if there had to be some outlet for their foiled creative fire.
History is, strictly speaking, the study of questions; the study of answers belongs to anthropology and sociology.
Music is the best means we have of digesting time.
'Healing,' Papa would tell me, 'is not a science, but the intuitive art of wooing nature.'
Life is too deep for words, so don't try to describe it, just live it.
Small things were important. Secods were small things, and if you heaped enough of those on top of one another, they became a man's life.
When I was in high school, I remember seeing girls crying in the bathroom every Monday about what they did that weekend. I never wanted to be that girl crying in the bathroom.
What's the good of drawing in the next breath if all you do is let it out and draw in another?
In the morning there was a big wind blowing and the waves were running high up on the beach and he was awake a long time before he remembered that his heart was broken.
Believe in miracles but don't depend on them. When you hear kind word spoken about a friend, tell him so. Spoil your spouse, not your children. Never make fun of someone who speaks broken English. It means they know another language. To help your children turn out well, spend twice as much time with them and half as much money.
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