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We are discreet sheep; we wait to see how the drove is going, and then go with the drove. We have two opinions: one private, which we are afraid to express; and another one - the one we use - which we force ourselves to wear to please Mrs. Grundy, until habit makes us comfortable in it, and the custom of defending it presently makes us love it, adore it, and forget how pitifully we came by it. Look at it in politics.
Mark Twain
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote critiques social conformity and the tendency to suppress personal opinions in favor of societal acceptance.

Mark Twain highlights the idea that people often conform to the opinions and behaviors of the majority, suppressing their true thoughts out of fear of judgment. This discomfort with individuality leads them to adopt beliefs that they initially wore as a mask to fit in, ultimately becoming so accustomed to these views that they forget their origins and may even come to passionately defend them, reflecting the complex dynamics of societal pressure and personal identity.

Themes

ConformityIndividualitySocietyOpinionFear

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used during a speech on the importance of embracing individuality.

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