Life's barely long enough to get good at one thing. So be careful what you get good at.
Matthew McconaugheyRead
I don't dislike any of my exes. If I took time to form a relationship, it's gonna hurt when we move on, but are you puttin' White-Out over all that beautiful time together? That was real time in your life. It's connected to where you are today.
Interpretation
The quote highlights the importance of cherishing past relationships despite their end, recognizing their role in personal growth.
Matthew McConaughey emphasizes that every relationship, even those that have ended, is significant in shaping who we are today. He suggests that while moving on can be painful, one should not erase the valuable experiences shared with past partners, as they contribute to personal development and the journey of life. The quote reflects a mature perspective on love and the importance of embracing the past with gratitude rather than resentment.
In practice
Using this quote during a toast at a friend's wedding to celebrate their past experiences.
Life's barely long enough to get good at one thing. So be careful what you get good at.
I know who I am. And after all these years, there's a victory in that.
You know who it is? It's me in 10 years. So I turned 25. Ten years later, that same person comes to me and says, 'So, are you a hero?' And I was like, 'not even close. No, no, no.' She said, 'Why?' I said, 'Because my hero's me at 35.' So you see every day, every week, every month and every year of my life, my hero's always 10 years away. I'm never gonna be my hero. I'm not gonna attain that. I know I'm not, and that's just fine with me because that keeps me with somebody to keep on chasing.
I love having my hands in the dirt. It is never a science and always an art. There are no rules. And if it comes down to me versus that weed I'm trying to pull out of the ground that doesn't want to come out? I know I'll win.
Kids will remind you that, even though you've gone down a road 100 times, it's brand new for them - and that's healthy.
I've read a lot of really great characters in some really crappy stories, where I said, like, 'Boy I could shine here, but the story sucks.' I don't want to be part of that.
Trust is a product of vulnerability that grows over time and requires work, attention, and full engagement.
I've always tried to balance my life with what is good for me but also keeping in mind how it affects somebody else.
The remedy for most marital stress is not in divorce. It is in repentance and forgiveness, in sincere expressions of charity and service. It is not in separation. It is in simple integrity that leads a man and a woman to square up their shoulders and meet their obligations. It is found in the Golden Rule, a time-honored principle that should first and foremost find expression in marriage.
Cute's good. But cute only lasts for so long, and then it's, 'Who are you as a person?' Look at the heart. Look at the soul. Look at how the guy treats his mother and what he says about women. How he acts with children he doesn't know. And, more important, how does he treat you?
This is one of the consequences of the civil war. People stop trusting each other, and every stranger becomes an enemy.
He wanted her. He knew where to find her. He waited. It amused him to wait, because he knew that the waiting was unbearable to her. He knew that his absence bound her to him in a manner more complete and humiliating than his presence could enforce. He was giving her time to attempt an escape, in order to let her know her own helplessness when he chose to see her again.
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