We had a happy marriage because we were together all the time. We were friends as well as husband and wife. We just had a good time.
Julia ChildRead
Sooner or later the public will forget you; the memory of you will fade. What's important are the individuals you've influenced along the way.
Interpretation
True impact lies in the connections we make with individuals, not in public recognition.
In this quote, Julia Child emphasizes the transient nature of public memory and fame, suggesting that the lasting value of a person's life is measured not by how many remember them, but by the positive influence they had on others. This underscores the importance of personal connections and the individual relationships that shape a person's legacy.
In practice
In a graduation speech to motivate students about the impact they can have on others.
We had a happy marriage because we were together all the time. We were friends as well as husband and wife. We just had a good time.
The egg can be your best friend if you just give it the right break
I always give my bird a generous butter massage before I put it in the oven. Why? Because I think the chicken likes it -- and, more important, I like to give it.
Upon reflection, I decided I had three main weaknesses: I was confused (evidenced by a lack of facts, an inability to coordinate my thoughts, and an inability to verbalize my ideas); I had a lack of confidence, which cause me to back down from forcefully stated positions; and I was overly emotional at the expense of careful, 'scientific' though. I was thirty-seven years old and still discovering who I was.
The best way to execute French cooking is to get good and loaded and whack the hell out of a chicken.
Wine is one of the agreeable and essential ingredients of life
Whites, like ourselves, belong to our country. They are compatriots, fellow citizens... we see them as Africans.
People complain not because something sucks. People complain because they're looking for empathy and to feel connected with those around them. Unfortunately, complaining is maybe the least useful way to connect with other human beings.
Toughening up, performing masculinity, pretending to enjoy things I didn't enjoy all enabled me to dodge the gender policing of the adults around me. But the way I really was - the swished hips, the Double-Dutching, the hair flips - seemed to always prevail and attract Dad's disdain.
Perhaps the sexual life is the great test. If we can survive it with charity to those we love and with affection to those we have betrayed, we needn't worry so much about the good and the bad in us. But jealousy, distrust, cruelty, revenge, recrimination ... then we fail. The wrong is in that failure even if we are the victims and not the executioners. Virtue is no excuse.
Laila has moved on. Because in the end she knows thatβs all she can do. That and hope.
My father wasn't around when I was a kid, and I used to always say, 'Why me? Why don't I have a father? Why isn't he around? Why did he leave my mother?' But as I got older I looked deeper and thought, 'I don't know what my father was going through, but if he was around all the time, would I be who I am today?'
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