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In any dispute, each side thinks it's in the right and the other side is demons.
Steven Pinker
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Disputes often lead individuals to view themselves as just and others as evil.

This quote by Steven Pinker reflects on the nature of conflict and disagreement, suggesting that in any contentious situation, involved parties tend to see themselves as morally correct while perceiving their opponents as fundamentally misguided or malevolent. This illustrates the psychological divide that occurs in disputes, emphasizing the importance of empathy and understanding opposing viewpoints to foster resolution and dialogue.

Themes

DisputePerspectiveConflictMoralityUnderstanding

In practice

Example use cases

During a debate on social issues, this quote can be used to highlight the importance of listening to opposing views.

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