If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
But from a distance. I would have left you whole and wholly for the delectation of those who wanted more and cared less.
Interpretation
The quote reflects a selfless love that prioritizes the happiness of the beloved over personal desires.
Maya Angelou's quote speaks to the theme of selflessness in love, where the speaker expresses a willingness to allow the beloved to be 'whole' and appreciated by others who may not have the same depth of feeling. This love is characterized by a recognition that sometimes, true affection means letting someone go to pursue their happiness, even if it means sacrificing one's own desires.
In practice
During a wedding toast when discussing the importance of letting your partner pursue their dreams.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
He would not let her go. Even though, staring into her open eyes in the swirling salt-filled water, with sun flashing though each wave, he thought he would like this moment to be forever: the dark-haired woman on shore calling for their safety, the girl who had once jumped rope like a queen, now holding him with a fierceness that matched the power of the oceanβoh, insane, ludicrous, unknowable world! Look how she wanted to live, look how she wanted to hold on.
As it has been said: Love and a cough cannot be concealed. Even a small cough. Even a small love.
And the coolness of your smile is stirringofbirds between my arms
Out of love, No regrets-- Though the goodness Be wasted forever. Out of love, No regrets-- Though the return Be never.
For me, physical love has always been bound to an irresistible feeling of innocence and joy. Thus, I cannot love in tears but in exaltation.
The greatest science in the world; in heaven and on earth; is love.
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