There is a certain kind of peace that is not merely the absence of war. It is larger than that. The peace I am thinking of is not at the mercy of history's rule, nor is it a passive surrender to the status quo. The peace I am thinking of is the dance of an open mind when it engages another equally open one -- an activity that occurs most naturally, most often in the reading/writing world we live in. Accessible as it is, this particular kind of peace warrants vigilance.
Don't ever think I fell for you, or fell over you. I didn't fall in love, I rose in it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes a conscious choice and elevation in love rather than a passive experience of falling.
Toni Morrison's quote suggests that love is not something that happens to us uncontrollably or through chance; rather, it is a state that we actively choose to rise into. This perspective highlights the empowerment involved in love, as it requires effort, intention, and a commitment to grow together with another person, rather than suggesting a vulnerability associated with the idea of 'falling' in love.
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In practice
Example use cases
During a wedding speech, you might say, 'As Toni Morrison beautifully put it, I didn't fall in love, I rose in it,' to emphasize the couple's active journey together.
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