I freely chose the kind of life I led because I was convinced that a woman has as much right as a man to live the way she does if she does no actual harm to society.
Mae WestRead
Don't marry a man to reform him - that's what reform schools are for.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Don't enter a marriage with the intention of changing your partner's fundamental traits.
Mae West's quote warns against the common misconception that one can change a partner through love or marriage. It emphasizes that attempting to reform someone fundamentally incompatible or unwilling to change can lead to frustration and disappointment, suggesting that one should seek a partner who is already aligned with their values and character.
Themes
MarriageChangeRelationshipsLoveAcceptance
In practice
Example use cases
A couple's counselor might use this quote to illustrate the importance of acceptance in relationships.
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