If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
Don't bring negative to my door.
Interpretation
Avoid negative influences in your life.
This quote emphasizes the importance of maintaining a positive environment by rejecting negativity and discouragement. It suggests that one should not allow negative thoughts, people, or situations to intrude into one's life, as they can hinder personal growth and well-being.
In practice
During a motivational speech about mental health.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
The truth is what I cherish and that's my strength
Age was respected among his people, but achievement was revered. As the elders said, if a child washed his hands he could eat with kings.
I was hugely impressed... was the ultimate example of a man who knew what he didn't know, was perfectly willing to admit it, and didn't want to leave until he understood. That's heroic to me. I wish every grad student had that attitude.
...no matter how avid they themselves may be for praise and appreciation, people are often niggardly in giving it to others, however merited it is.
Humility, that low, sweet root, from which all heavenly virtues shoot.
Tenderness and kindness are not signs of weakness and despair, but manifestations of strength and resolution.
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