It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters, in the end.
Ursula K. Le GuinRead
But now his dry and silent grieving for his lost wife must end, for there she stood, the fierce, recalcitrant, and fragile stranger, forever to be won again.
Interpretation
This quote reflects the complexities of love and loss, highlighting the continual effort to reconnect with a loved one.
In this quote, Ursula K. Le Guin explores the emotional landscape of mourning and the enduring bond between partners, even after loss. The imagery of a 'fierce, recalcitrant, and fragile stranger' suggests that while the beloved has changed through absence, the effort to understand and reconnect with them remains vital and ongoing, emphasizing that love is an active pursuit requiring vulnerability and resilience.
In practice
In a eulogy, to express the enduring love for a lost spouse.
It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters, in the end.
In reading a novel, any novel, we have to know perfectly well that the whole thing is nonsense, and then, while reading, believe every word of it. Finally, when we're done with it, we may find - if it's a good novel - that we're a bit different from what we were before we read it, that we have changed a little... But it's very hard to say just what we learned, how we were changed.
Reason is a faculty far larger than mere objective force. When either the political or the scientific discourse announces itself as the voice of reason, it is playing God, and should be spanked and stood in the corner.
The only thing that makes life possible is permanent, intolerable uncertainty; not knowing what comes next.
We read books to find out who we are. What other people, real or imaginary, do and think and feel... is an essential guide to our understanding of what we ourselves are and may become.
When he found that the administrators were upset, he laughed. “Do they expect students not to be anarchists?” he said. “What else can the young be? When you are on the bottom, you must organize from the bottom up
You don't come home from the office to spend time with another job. Hopefully you come home to someone you can have a good time with.
When you are in the final days of your life, what will you want? Will you hug that college degree in the walnut frame? Will you ask to be carried to the garage so you can sit in your car? Will you find comfort in rereading your financial statement? Of course not. What will matter then will be people. If relationships will matter most then, shouldn't they matter most now?
I must quit marrying men who feel inferior to me. Somewhere there must be a man who could be my husband and not feel inferior.
When you stay in your room and rage or sneer or shrug your shoulders, as I did for many years, the world and its problems are impossibly daunting. But when you go out and put yourself in real relation to real people, or even just real animals, there’s a very real danger that you might end up loving some of them. And who knows what might happen to you then?
Music really is a way to reach out and hold on to each other in a healthy way.
In the beginning of life, when we are infants, we need others to survive, right? And at the end of life, when you get like me, you need others to survive, right?’ His voice dropped to a whisper. ‘But here’s the secret: in between, we need others as well.
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