We start making every child ambitious, and ambition means you cannot love; ambition is anti-love. Ambition needs fight, ambition needs struggle, ambition needs you to use others as a means.
RajneeshRead
My effort here is to help you to feel that existence is not indifferent towards you. It is deeply concerned about you, it cares for you, it loves you. and when one feels loved and cared for, one is capable of loving and caring. when existence pours its love into you, you start sharing your love with others. You become so burdened with love that you have to share. You cannot contain it, it is uncontainable. It starts spreading, radiating.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the reciprocal nature of love and how feeling loved can inspire individuals to share that love with others.
In this quote, Rajneesh conveys that existence itself is inherently loving and caring towards individuals. This sense of being cared for instills a deep capacity for love within oneself, prompting an outflow of love towards others. When one acknowledges and feels this love from the universe, it becomes overwhelming, leading to a natural desire to spread that love, creating a cycle of compassion and connection among people.
In practice
During a motivational speech about interpersonal relationships.
We start making every child ambitious, and ambition means you cannot love; ambition is anti-love. Ambition needs fight, ambition needs struggle, ambition needs you to use others as a means.
The technique of positive thinking is not a technique that transforms you. It is simply repressing the negative aspects of your personality. It is a method of choice. It cannot help awareness; it goes against awareness. Awareness is always choiceless.
Only those persons who have lived, really lived, are ready, welcoming, receptive, thankful to death. Then death is not the enemy. Then death becomes the fulfillment.
Creativity has two possibilities. One is that it arises out of your silence, love, understanding, your clarity of vision, your intimate friendliness with existence - then creativity is healthy. But if it does not arise out of meditation, out of silence and peace and understanding and love, then there is a danger. It may be arising out of your confused mind. It may be arising out of your insanity.
There is no separate art of life. If you know how to allow poetry, if you know how to allow dance, if you know how to allow love - if you know how to ALLOW, then you know the art of life. In the allowing, in the let-go, in the surrender, is the art of life. How not to be and to let God be - that is the only art of life.
Love is not a relationship, love is a state of being; it has nothing to do with anybody else. One is not "in love", one is love. And of course when one is love, one is in love – but that is an outcome, a by-product, that is not the source. The source is that one is love.
The reason why all men honor love is because it looks up, and not down; aspires and not despairs.
When you fall in love, the natural thing to do is give yourself to it.
It is difficult to suddenly give up a long love. Difficile est longum subito deponere amorem
A man's love, till it has been chastened and fastened by the feeling of duty which marriage brings with it, is instigated mainly by the difficulty of pursuit.
You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart.
I'll paint you moments of gold, I'll spin you Valentine evenings.
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