We start making every child ambitious, and ambition means you cannot love; ambition is anti-love. Ambition needs fight, ambition needs struggle, ambition needs you to use others as a means.
The ego is a subtle wall around you. It does not allow anybody to enter into you. You feel protected, secure, but this security is deathlike. It is the security of the plant inside the seed. The plant is afraid to sprout because - who knows? The world is so hazardous and the plant will be so soft, so fragile. Behind the wall of the seed, hiding inside the cell, everything is protected.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The ego acts as a barrier that isolatesthe individual, providing a false sense of security that ultimately hinders growth and connection with the world.
Rajneesh highlights the concept of the ego as a protective barrier that individuals build around themselves. While it may offer a sense of security, it ultimately prevents genuine connection and growth, akin to how a seed remains safe inside its shell but is unable to blossom into a plant due to fear of the external world. This quote invites reflection on the necessity of overcoming ego to embrace vulnerability and the richness of life outside our comfort zones.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about personal growth during a seminar, this quote could underline the importance of overcoming ego.
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There is no separate art of life. If you know how to allow poetry, if you know how to allow dance, if you know how to allow love - if you know how to ALLOW, then you know the art of life. In the allowing, in the let-go, in the surrender, is the art of life. How not to be and to let God be - that is the only art of life.
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