God how I hate new countries: They are older than the old, more sophisticated, much more conceited, only young in a certain puerile vanity more like senility than anything.
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When the emotional soul receives a wounding shock, the soul seems to recover as the body recovers. But this is only in appearance. Slowly, slowly the wound to the soul begins to make itself felt, like a bruise, which only slowly deepens its terrible ache, till it fills all the psyche. And when we think we have recovered and forgotten, it is then that the terrible after-effects have to be encountered at their worst.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Emotional wounds can linger and affect us deeply, even after we believe we have healed.
This quote by D. H. Lawrence suggests that while physical injuries may heal visibly over time, emotional wounds operate differently. They can remain hidden and continue to affect our psyche long after the initial shock, often surfacing in unexpected ways when we think we've recovered. It conveys the idea that emotional healing is a gradual process and that the implications of psychological trauma can affect us profoundly and persistently.
Themes
EmotionalWoundsHealingSoulPsychology
In practice
Example use cases
In a therapy session, this quote can be used to discuss the lingering effects of trauma with a patient.
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