Armchair poverty tourism has been around as long as authors have written about class. As an author, I have struggled myself with the nuances of writing about poverty without reducing any community to a catalog of its difficulties.
Leslie JamisonRead
Empathy isn’t just something that happens to us — a meteor shower of synapses firing across the brain — it’s also a choice we make: to pay attention, to extend ourselves.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Empathy is both an involuntary response and a conscious choice to connect with others.
This quote emphasizes that empathy is not merely a spontaneous reaction but also an intentional decision to engage and understand the feelings of others. It suggests that by consciously choosing to be empathetic, individuals can foster deeper connections and enrich their relationships, highlighting the importance of awareness and effort in cultivating understanding.
Themes
EmpathyChoiceConnectionAwarenessRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
In a team meeting, you could use this quote to encourage coworkers to be more understanding of each other's viewpoints.
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