As you recognize that you already own the wholeness you seek, and no one outside you can give you more than you already are, dysfunctional situations will evaporate like bad dreams exposed to the morning sun.
Alan CohenRead
Enlightenment does not ask you to be perfect; it simply asks you to find perfection right where you stand.
Interpretation
Enlightenment encourages self-acceptance and appreciation of one's current state rather than striving for an unattainable perfection.
This quote by Alan Cohen suggests that enlightenment is not about achieving an idealized version of oneself, but rather recognizing and embracing the inherent perfection in your present situation. It underscores the notion that personal growth and understanding come from within, and that the journey to enlightenment lies in appreciating the moment and acknowledging one's existing strengths and qualities.
In practice
In a motivational speech about personal growth.
As you recognize that you already own the wholeness you seek, and no one outside you can give you more than you already are, dysfunctional situations will evaporate like bad dreams exposed to the morning sun.
Communication is an offering. When you tell someone your truth, you must release your expectation of what the other person should do with it. They may thank you profusely, love you forever, argue with you, or ignore you. It doesn't matter. Of course we hope the gift will be received with appreciation and thanks. But if it isn't we must not dictate. We've done our part, and we must trust the universe to do the rest.
When you learn to say yes to yourself, you will be able to say no to others, with love.
We attain freedom as we let go of whatever does not reflect our magnificence. A bird cannot fly high or far with a stone tied to its back. But release the impediment, and we are free to soar to unprecedented heights.
You can be helping many people, but if you are not helping yourself, you have missed the one person you were born to heal.
When you protect yourself from pain, be sure you do not protect yourself from love.
We want to get 80%-85% of predictions right, not 100%. Or else we calibrated our estimates in the wrong way.
True will is quiet humility, resilience, and flexibility; the other kind of will is weakness disguised by bluster and ambition.
Every object and being in the universe is a jar overflowing with wisdom and beauty,a drop of the Tigris that cannot be contained by any skin. Every jarful spills and makes the earth more shining, as though covered in satin... Make peace with the universe. Take joy in it. It will turn to gold. Resurrection will be now. Every moment, a new beauty.
Never tell the truth to people who are not worthy of it.
Every action has its pleasures and its price.
If you're going to be a good and faithful judge, you have to resign yourself to the fact that you're not always going to like the conclusions you reach. If you like them all the time, you're probably doing something wrong.
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