As you recognize that you already own the wholeness you seek, and no one outside you can give you more than you already are, dysfunctional situations will evaporate like bad dreams exposed to the morning sun.
Alan CohenRead
Enlightenment does not ask you to be perfect; it simply asks you to find perfection right where you stand.
Interpretation
Enlightenment encourages self-acceptance and appreciation of one's current state rather than striving for an unattainable perfection.
This quote by Alan Cohen suggests that enlightenment is not about achieving an idealized version of oneself, but rather recognizing and embracing the inherent perfection in your present situation. It underscores the notion that personal growth and understanding come from within, and that the journey to enlightenment lies in appreciating the moment and acknowledging one's existing strengths and qualities.
In practice
In a motivational speech about personal growth.
As you recognize that you already own the wholeness you seek, and no one outside you can give you more than you already are, dysfunctional situations will evaporate like bad dreams exposed to the morning sun.
Communication is an offering. When you tell someone your truth, you must release your expectation of what the other person should do with it. They may thank you profusely, love you forever, argue with you, or ignore you. It doesn't matter. Of course we hope the gift will be received with appreciation and thanks. But if it isn't we must not dictate. We've done our part, and we must trust the universe to do the rest.
When you learn to say yes to yourself, you will be able to say no to others, with love.
We attain freedom as we let go of whatever does not reflect our magnificence. A bird cannot fly high or far with a stone tied to its back. But release the impediment, and we are free to soar to unprecedented heights.
You can be helping many people, but if you are not helping yourself, you have missed the one person you were born to heal.
When you protect yourself from pain, be sure you do not protect yourself from love.
The place one's in, though, doesn't make any contribution to peace of mind: it's the spirit that makes everything agreeable to oneself.
If you are involved with the intensity of crescendo situations, with the intensity of tragedy, you might begin to see the humor of these situations as well. As in music, when we hear the crescendo building, suddenly if the music stops, we begin to hear the silence as part of the music.
Genius is the recovery of childhood at will.
If one takes care of the means, the end will take care of itself.
Dripping water hollows out stone, not through force but through persistence.
If the stories come, you get them written, you're on the right track. Eventually everyone learns his or her own best way. The real mystery to crack is you.
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