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Even an animal, if you show genuine affection, gradually trust develops... If you always showing bad face and beating, how can you develop friendship?
Dalai Lama
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Genuine affection leads to trust and friendship, while negativity breeds distance.

The quote highlights the importance of displaying kindness and affection in building trust and friendships, whether with animals or people. It suggests that positive interactions create a nurturing environment, whereas negative behavior, like hostility or aggression, inhibits connection and understanding.

Themes

TrustAffectionFriendshipNegativityKindness

In practice

Example use cases

During a team meeting, to encourage a supportive environment.

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