I believe that in intense conflict, far from becoming sharper, differences melt away.
Rene GirardRead
We don't even know what our desire is. We ask other people to tell us our desires. We would like our desires to come from our deepest selves, our personal depths - but if it did, it would not be desire. Desire is always for something we feel we lack.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Desires often stem from a sense of lack and can be influenced by others rather than our true selves.
This quote by Rene Girard reflects on the complexity of human desire, suggesting that individuals frequently rely on external sources to define what they want, rather than discovering their authentic desires from within. Girard emphasizes that true desire emerges from personal depth and introspection, yet it paradoxically remains tied to feelings of inadequacy or lack, illustrating the intricate relationship between self-awareness and the quest for fulfillment.
Themes
DesireSelfLackInternalExternalDepths
In practice
Example use cases
During a philosophical discussion on human nature.
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