If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
Every experience shapes your writing, being stuck in a car on a lonely bridge, or dancing at a prom, being the it girl on the beach, all of those things influence your life, they influence how you write, and the topics you choose to write about.
Interpretation
Our lived experiences greatly influence our writing and creative expression.
Maya Angelou emphasizes that every moment in our lives, whether mundane or joyous, contributes to our perspective and creativity as writers. These experiences, ranging from the solitude of being stuck on a bridge to the exhilaration of dancing at a prom, shape the topics we choose and the voices we use, thus underscoring the importance of drawing from our personal journeys in artistic endeavors.
In practice
During a writing workshop, I shared this quote to illustrate how our personal histories enrich our storytelling.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
I wept when the muse Ulla bent over me. Blinded by tears I could not prevent her from kissing me, I could not prevent the Muse from giving me that terrible kiss. All of you who have ever been kissed by the Muse will surely understand that Oskar, once branded by that kiss, was condemned to take back the drum he had rejected years before, the drum he had buried in the sand of Sapse Cemetery.
I get my best ideas in a thunderstorm. I have the power and majesty of nature on my side.
I'm in the acting business. That's the ego business.
What you wear is how you present yourself to the world, especially today when human contacts go so fast. Fashion is instant language.
Because I sidestepped all the stereotypical roles, in a way I've made a career out of not being Asian - a lot of my roles weren't written as Asian - so there's an impulse in me that wants to take a U-turn and play a very grounded, real Asian character, maybe an immigrant.
A museum should not just be a place for fancy paintings but should be a place where we can communicate our lives through our everyday objects.
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