I gave him my heart, and he took and pinched it to death; and flung it back to me. People feel with their hearts, Ellen, and since he has destroyed mine, I have not power to feel for him.
Emily BronteRead
I pray every night that I may live after him; because I would rather be miserable than that he should be — that proves I love him better than myself.
Interpretation
True love prioritizes the happiness of the beloved over one's own comfort or joy.
In this quote, Emily Bronte conveys a profound sense of selflessness associated with love. The speaker expresses a willingness to endure personal suffering rather than allow their loved one to face any misery, emphasizing that their love is greater than their own desires or well-being. This reflects the idea that true love entails sacrificing one's own happiness for the sake of another's joy, showcasing the deep emotional bonds that exist in genuine relationships.
In practice
This quote can be used in a wedding speech to highlight the nature of commitment in love.
I gave him my heart, and he took and pinched it to death; and flung it back to me. People feel with their hearts, Ellen, and since he has destroyed mine, I have not power to feel for him.
I ran to the children's room: their door was ajar, I saw they had never laid down, though it was past midnight; but they were calmer, and did not need me to console them. The little souls were comforting each other with better thoughts than I could have hit on: no parson in the world ever pictured heaven so beautifully as they did, in their innocent talk; and, while I sobbed, and listened. I could not help wishing we were all there safe together.
Vain are the thousand creeds That move men's hearts, unutterably vain; Worthless as withered weeds, Or idlest froth amid the boundless main.
Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.
He had been content with daily labour and rough animal enjoyments, 'till Catherine crossed his path. Shame at her scorn, and hope of her approval, were his first prompts to higher pursuits; and, instead of guarding him from one and winning him to the other, his endeavors to raise himself had produced just the contrary result.
And, even yet, I dare not let it languish, Dare not indulge in memory's rapturous pain; Once drinking deep of that divinest anguish, How could I seek the empty world again?
Christianity has done a great deal for love by making a sin of it.
We are here to love, not to judge. I'd been blaming and raging. I certainly wasn't loving my daughter that afternoon as God loves me. God's love doesn't insist on perfection or even good common sense. Why then should I demand more of those I love? With this tiny change in perspective I began to see the need for correction wasn't in my daughter, but in me.
There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.
The greatest distance in this World is not that between living and death, it is when I am just before you, and you don't know that I Love You.
Good night, good night! Parting is such sweet sorrow, that I shall say good night till it be morrow.
Gamble everything for love, if you're a true human being.
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