As you recognize that you already own the wholeness you seek, and no one outside you can give you more than you already are, dysfunctional situations will evaporate like bad dreams exposed to the morning sun.
Alan CohenRead
Everything will change when your desire to move on exceeds your desire to hold on.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Change happens when the need to progress outweighs the fear of losing what we already have.
This quote suggests that personal transformation and progress are possible when an individual's longing to embrace new opportunities becomes stronger than their attachment to the past. It highlights the importance of desire and willpower in motivating change, encouraging individuals to prioritize their aspirations for the future over their comfort in the familiar.
Themes
ChangeDesireProgressAttachmentTransformation
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a motivational speech about personal growth.
More from Alan Cohen
All quotes βCommunication is an offering. When you tell someone your truth, you must release your expectation of what the other person should do with it. They may thank you profusely, love you forever, argue with you, or ignore you. It doesn't matter. Of course we hope the gift will be received with appreciation and thanks. But if it isn't we must not dictate. We've done our part, and we must trust the universe to do the rest.
Alan CohenRead
When you learn to say yes to yourself, you will be able to say no to others, with love.
Alan CohenRead
We attain freedom as we let go of whatever does not reflect our magnificence. A bird cannot fly high or far with a stone tied to its back. But release the impediment, and we are free to soar to unprecedented heights.
Alan CohenRead
You can be helping many people, but if you are not helping yourself, you have missed the one person you were born to heal.
Alan CohenRead
When you protect yourself from pain, be sure you do not protect yourself from love.
Alan CohenRead
Similar quotes
People are very hungry for something new. I think they are interested in being called to be a part of something larger than the sort of small, petty, slash-and-burn politics that we have been seeing over the last several years.
Barack ObamaRead
Most kids just follow the cycle. My grandfather didn't finish high school. My father didn't, and I didn't. But you can break the cycle. You can have a successful marriage and be a good father.
Eric D. ThomasRead
A caterpillar who seeks to know himself would never become a butterfly
Andre GideRead
There's this terrific kid in Maine who saw all the waste generated by straws handed out in restaurants. So he made up these little pop-up cards and asked restaurant owners put them on the tables to explain why straws wouldn't be handed out unless requested. Of course, the restaurant owners couldn't resist a 9-year-old kid, and so it worked.
Philippe Cousteau, Jr.Read
Whether or not you welcome it, moving house requires you to make choices about the past as you move into the future. What of all of your bits of stuff is truly valued? What should be left behind?
Julia GillardRead
Are you going to cater to the whims and prejudices of people? We draw out from other people our own thought. If, when you go out to organize, you go with a broad spirit, you will create and call out breadth and toleration. You had better organize one woman on a broad platform than 10,000 on a narrow platform of intolerance and bigotry.
Susan B. AnthonyRead