If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
The fact that the adult American Negro female emerges a formidable character is often met with amazement, distaste and even belligerance. It is seldom accepted as an inevitable outcome of the struggle won by survivors, and deserves respect if not enthusiastic acceptance.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The strength and resilience of Black women in America is often overlooked and met with mixed reactions.
Maya Angelou highlights the remarkable strength and character of adult Black women in America, noting that their emergence as formidable individuals is not always recognized positively. Instead of celebrating their resilience and achievements as the natural result of enduring hardship, society frequently responds with surprise or hostility, underscoring the need for greater respect and acceptance of their contributions and existence.
Themes
StrengthResilienceBlack WomenSocietyRespect
In practice
Example use cases
During a women's conference, this quote could be used to highlight the achievements of Black women in various fields.
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