Most of us have spent our lives caught up in plans, expectations, ambitions for the future; in regrets, guilt or shame about the past. To come into the present is to stop the war.
Jack KornfieldRead
When we struggle to change ourselves we, in fact, only continue the patterns of self-judgement and aggression. We keep the war against ourselves alive.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Struggling to change ourselves can lead to self-judgment and internal conflict.
Jack Kornfield emphasizes that the effort to change can sometimes backfire, resulting in a continuous cycle of self-judgment and inner conflict. Instead of fostering personal growth, this struggle may cause individuals to perpetuate negative patterns and remain in a state of war with themselves, ultimately hindering true transformation and peace.
Themes
ChangeSelf-JudgmentInner ConflictTransformationSelf-Acceptance
In practice
Example use cases
During a mental health seminar to emphasize the importance of self-compassion.
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