I am a person who continually destroys the possibilities of a future because of the numbers of alternative viewpoints I can focus on the present.
Doris LessingRead
You cannot escape the fact that women mould your first five years, whether you like it or not. And I can't say I do like it very much.
Interpretation
This quote reflects on the significant impact women have during early childhood development.
Doris Lessing emphasizes the undeniable influence that women, often mothers or caregivers, have on shaping a person's formative years. She acknowledges that this influence is profound and lasting, regardless of one's feelings about it. The quote suggests an exploration of the complex relationship between upbringing and identity, showcasing both admiration and ambivalence towards this experience.
In practice
In a discussion about parenting styles, one might refer to this quote to highlight the role of women in early childhood.
I am a person who continually destroys the possibilities of a future because of the numbers of alternative viewpoints I can focus on the present.
In the writing process, the more the story cooks, the better. The brain works for you even when you are at rest. I find dreams particularly useful. I myself think a great deal before I go to sleep and the details sometimes unfold in the dream.
Humanity's legacy of stories and storytelling is the most precious we have. All wisdom is in our stories and songs. A story is how we construct our experiences. At the very simplest, it can be: 'He/she was born, lived, died.' Probably that is the template of our stories - a beginning, middle, and end. This structure is in our minds.
There is a great line of women stretching out behind you into the past, and you have to seek them out and find them in yourself and be conscious of them.
The World War I, I'm a child of World War I. And I really know about the children of war. Because both my parents were both badly damaged by the war. My father, physically, and both mentally and emotionally. So, I know exactly what it's like to be brought up in an atmosphere of a continual harping on the war.
You should write, first of all, to please yourself. You shouldn't care a damn about anybody else at all. But writing can't be a way of life - the important part of writing is living. You have to live in such a way that your writing emerges from it.
It's just really making sure I am doing the best job I can do as a dad. I do think that is my No. 1 job.
A good father is one of the most unsung, unpraised, unnoticed, and yet one of the most valuable assets in our society.
The parents age must be remembered, both for joy and anxiety.
This is part of what a family is about, not just love. It's knowing that your family will be there watching out for you. Nothing else will give you that. Not money. Not fame. Not work.
Ammu loved her children (of course), but their wide-eyed vulnerability and their willingness to love people who didn't really love them exasperated her and sometimes made her want to hurt them-- just as an education, a precaution.
If we never have headaches through rebuking our children, we shall have plenty of heartaches when they grow up.
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