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By the fall of 2007, my last remaining Iraqi friend in Baghdad had left. Once he was gone, my connection to the country and the war began to thin, even as the terror diminished. I missed the improvement that came with the surge, and so, in my nervous system, I never quite registered it.
George Packer
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What this quote means

The quote reflects the deep emotional ties to a friend and how their absence can diminish one's connection to a place and its events.

In this quote, George Packer expresses a feeling of loss and disconnection following the departure of a close friend from Iraq. He conveys how the absence of this friendship not only severed his direct connection to the friend but also dulled his perception of the changes occurring in the country, highlighting the profound impact personal relationships have on our understanding of broader events and contexts.

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In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about the importance of maintaining relationships during times of crisis, this quote can illustrate the emotional weight of losing a friend.

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